How I Found True Love

. . . And Made A Web site about It.

True love is hard to find. I guess you already know that.

Fortunately, I found it. And so can you.

Unlike most people, I decided to build a web site about my love experiences. Why?

Because I know what it feels like to search for love. I know the suspense, the anticipation, the disappointment, the unfulfilled expectations. I know what it feels like to search and search without results. I also know what it feels like to finally find the love of your life.

It is . . . exhilarating!

So, I decided to build a web site about it and share my wonderful find . . . true love.

How did I do it?

I will get down to that shortly. In the meantime, let me share with you how I found true love. And how you can find true love too.

The Search For True Love . . . My Journey

I grew up with one resolve: I will get married and I will get married at 30.

Why 30yrs of age?

Well, I figured that it would take some time to finish school, get a good job, acquire a bit of life's necessities, and then get a woman who loves me to share it with.

Let me tell you a bit about myself so you get the whole picture and understand the key elements of my search.

I am of average height, dark, half way between hardsome and beautiful, and open-minded. I have a good sense of humour - I know how to have a good laugh. I am mild tempered, peaceable, considerate and loving.

I got my first paid job when I was 27. Taking that job meant I had to leave home to another city. There I lived with my aunt before I was financially capable to rent my own apartment. I lived with that family for about 11 months before eventually securing my own accommodation.

One evening while still living with my aunt and her family, she returned home excited. Enthusiastically, she told me of this really wonderful girl she met and that she was my exact match. That wasn't all. She had invited her to join the family for dinner so I could get a chance to meet her.

I had no choice. Everything was already arranged. And the way she went on and on about how sweet and lovely she was made me want to take a second look.

D-day came. The girl visited and had dinner with the family.

My aunt was right. She was an enthusiastic and likeable person. She was full of life and spoke excitedly about everything and anything that came up for discussion. But . . . I wasn't interested.

Was something wrong with her?

No, nothing. But I just wasn't mentally ready for marriage.

My aunt didn't give up. She tried to get me hooked with several other girls. But it just didn't work. I just wasn't ready.

Something became outrightly clear to me: You cannot make a person fall in love when he is not mentally and emotionally ready for it.

I had so many great friends too . . . family friends, sisters-in-the-lord . . . who were ready to graduate from just being friends to something eternal - marriage. As great as they were, I wasn't ready for it. And I made it clear.

At that point in my life, marriage wasn't the next natural thing. And all attempts by friends and well-wishers to make me thing in that direction was futile.

As you read this, you may be in that same situation . . . you may be under pressure from relatives, parents, or friends to get married. Don't fall for it - don't rush into marriage if you're not mentally and emotionally ready for the challenges.

So, here I was not ready and not searching. And time was slowing rolling. Before I knew it I was 30yrs old.

The Search For True Love Heats Up

Suddenly, out of the blues, there was the desire to find a life partner, the desire to get married. Before I knew it, the heat suddenly came on.

I wanted a wife like yesterday! I wanted a wife and I wanted her now!

That was when I really started the search.

Unfortunately, getting a wife is not as easy as buying a sheep off the market stall. Getting a wife, for me, wasn't about taking the next girl I see to the marriage altar.

Marriage is sacred to me. I understood that marriage is about a deep connection between to people. And that marriage is meant to last forever. It's not a hit and run thing. It's about finding someone you love and sticking with her through good and bad times.

Who is that woman who will love me the way I wanted to be loved? Who is that woman who will make me complete?

I searched and searched but I couldn't find her. Two years down the road I was still searching.

In the process I met so many women but there was none that struck a cord in me.

Don't get me wrong. My standards weren't too high. What I wanted in a woman was simple enough.

I wanted a woman who had the fear of God. "The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom", so says the Holy Bible.

I wanted a woman who shared my Christian faith. "Do not become unevenly yoked with unbelievers", says the Holy Bible.

Besides the above, I wanted a woman who complimented me in every way. She should be tall, smart, intelligent, elegant. She should have a good sense of humour, speak good English, and have the capacity to give and take a joke.

In addition, she should love children. I planned to have four.

She should be homely, respectful of others, mild tempered, peaceable, kind, considerate, ecstatic about our relationship, exciting to talk to, and a true friend. Above all, she should love me just as much as I love her.

Not too high a standard, right?

So, I searched day after day, month after month but no likely candidate. I searched and searched . . . I was getting desperate.

Where are all the wonderful women?

Then suddenly . . . I ran into her.

I Stumbled On Love!

It was during a Christian convention. I arrived the convention ground early.

As I strolled toward my seat, I looked at the crowd settling to their seats in readiness for the convention program that was to start in about ten minutes.

I was a man searching for a future partner so my eyes was already trained to scan and make a quick preliminary assessment. As I scanned the crowd, I caught sight of a young Christian sister racing to her seat some distance away.

From what I could see, she had long legs, athletic stature, and she was carrying a contribution box.

Let me give you a little background information.

The Christian congregation I associate with do not solicit for funds. Contributions boxes are placed at strategic locations in the convention grounds to give attendees opportunities to contribute voluntarily toward promoting Christian Kingdom interests. Volunteers are used to guard those boxes to prevent unauthorized movements.

This girl was carrying one of those boxes as she raced to her seat.

I couldn't take my eyes off her. Her long graceful strides got me hooked. I followed her with my eyes until she got to her seat.

Could this perhaps be the woman I've been searching for? Could this athletic, admirable young woman be the love of my life?

My heart skipped a beat.

Unfortunately, I couldn't approach her as the convention soon started. Nevertheless, I couldn't take my eyes off her throughout the session. Something was brewing inside of me. An overwhelming excitement.

Break time came soon enough. I approached her seat to speak with her. Before I got there, a friend came by her and they started a long conversation. It didn't seem like the right time to have a word with her. So, I shelved it.

Sometime later, as I walked through the convention grounds to get something to eat before the afternoon session started, I caught a glimpse of her. She was coming behind me with definite and graceful long strides. This was the perfect moment.

As she passed by me I said, "Hi. My name is Samson Itoje. I will like you to be my friend".

That caught her unawares. My statement was straight to the point.

She smiled and said, "My name is Ngozi Okafor. I will like to be your friend".

We shook hands and she left. As simple as that.

After the close of the afternoon session, I went to her seat to bid her fareware. In the process, I collected her home address and gave her mine.

Then we had a great conversation. It was a beautiful day.

Two weeks later, I asked her to marry me. She asked for some time to think about it.

Two weeks after that she agreed and we were engaged.

I Found My True Love. So Can You.

My wife is simply amazing.

She's a friend . . . my best friend. She's a wonderful woman - the best I could ever ask for. And she is considerate, homely, smart, intelligent, beautiful, and a rare gem. She has impeccable manners and eyes that make me fall in love over and over again.

I found true love . . . so can you.

Whatever your current situation, you can find the love of your life. Read this web site thoroughly. Understand what true love is. Search in the right places. And . . . yes, you will find your true love.

I Fell In Love . . . And Built A Web Site About It

I built this web site after I found the love of my life . . . my wife.

The purpose is to help people like you find the perfect partner and to live happily ever after.

To make this possible, I used an online business building software called Site Build It! (abbreviated, SBI!).

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