Falling Accidentally In Love Is Normal. But Do Compatibility Tests.

Falling accidentally in love is perfectly normal. But thereafter you must do compatibility tests. This ensures your accidentally in love case does not lead to disaster.

The truth is . . . most people fell in love on a day they were least expecting it. My wife is one such person. When I met my wife it was in a Christian convention. At this time I was in search of a wife and this convention provided an opportunity to find one. Don't get me wrong. I didn't show up at this particular convention just to get a wife.

The convention was an annual event where Christians of similar faith assembled to hear God's word.

So bottom line. I needed a wife. Fellow Christians were assembled here, about ten thousand of them. So here was an opportunity to find someone compatible with me for marriage relationship.

My wife on the other hand was still young and in school. Marriage was nowhere near her dreams.

When we met, there was instant attraction. I concluded right there and then she was the perfect woman for me. But I didn't tell her so.

On her side of the spectrum, she was happy to meet an interesting brother who would make a great friend. She was still young. Her whole life was ahead of her. Marriage wasn't a burning issue . . . at least not yet.

So, you could say my wife fell accidentally in love. She wasn't expecting it. She didn't plan for it. Suddenly love came and hit her like a thunderbolt.

Yeah, must people fall accidentally in love. Love hits them when they were least expecting it.

However, after the euphoria of your first meeting and liking what you see and hear, you must consciously pull yourself backwards and do some compatibility tests.

Is your new found love compatible with you?

You cannot correctly decide that on your first meeting. Hence, you need to interact some more.

Compatibility tests essentially involves comparing your likes and dislikes with those of your man to determine if there is a meeting point . . . to determine if you are compatible.

Compatibility tests are absolutely important for any love relationship.

When you and your man come together, when you fall accidentally in love or through planned meeting, you are just two different people who have taken an interest in each other.

Underline this . . . you are two different people.