All He Wants To Do Is Fool Around

by Confused....

We have been dating for awhile and I love him and he loves me. I have never been as happy in a relationship as I am now.

We spend almost all of our time together and we do have plans for the future(marriage, house, etc). I want to spend the rest of my life with him but heres the problem.

I'm a virgin and he is not. He told me that what he did was a mistake and he is not proud of it. The thing is that when we are alone all he wants to do is fool around.

I told him i dont plan on having sex till i am married and he understands that but to me fooling around just doesnt seem right. I really dont know if its a bad thing or not.

I've tried to talk to him about it and stuff but he doesnt see the bad in it. When i stop him and tell him that i dont think its a good idea he gets quiet and ignores me for awhile. He has told me that fooling around relaxes him.

I do understand that he has a lot going on and everything. He says that when we fool around he can just let everything go and focus on us and our relationship. Is this a good thing or a bad thing??

So my question is....

Is Fooling around ok or not????
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