Amateur Wife - Should You Marry An Amateur Wife?

An amateur wife is innocent. She does not know the evil ways of the world. She's pure of heart. She's simple-minded. Maybe you should marry amateur wife. But should you?

Honestly, you should if you want a faithful wife.

Many love relationships fail because one of the parties involved fell to the temptation of having extramarital affair. The innocent party could not stand the pain. So the relationship was shipwrecked. Marrying an amateur innocent girl, saves you the trouble of a broken relationship. She's dedicated to you and you alone. She builds her world around you. You're everything to her.

Marrying an amateur wife . . . a simple innocent woman . . . has huge benefits.

Unfortunately, many young men do not want a simple woman. They want a sophisticated woman who knows her onions. A woman who is "modern" and 21st century branded.

It's perfectly okay to want a sophisticated woman for marriage. It certainly does have it's own set of advantages.

But remember that sophistication and cool-headedness don't always go together.

To illustrate.

Consider the lifestyle of celebrities.

Ponder this: Why do many celebrity marriages fail only after a few months of being together?

Simple answer: sophistication leading to refusal to submit to male control or leadership.

Celebrities are sophisticated women. You cannot be a celebrity woman and not be.

Women celebrities are often independent and strong-willed. There's nothing wrong with that if they also know the limit of their independence and respect their husbands as head (the leader or head of the family).

The truth is . . . men want women who listen to them whether they admit it or not. The oldest book in human history, the bible, recognizes man as the head of a woman.

Men take that leadership assignment seriously. Any wife, sophisticated or not, who does not submit to her husband's leadership is courting trouble. Sooner or later, you can't take it anymore.

The next step?

Separation or divorce.

An amateur wife does not get into a tussle with her husband over who is head of the family. She's more often than not from a humble upbringing and has been well brought up.

An amateur wife is thorough bred by her mom. She's most likely from a local village setting. Her mother takes the time to teach her the virtues of marriage and her special role in it.

How innocent is she?

Well, in my locality, there's this long told story of how a father had to teach his newly married son the art of love making. He didn't know the how of sex neither did his innocent wife know. Two local people!

Marrying an amateur wife really does have benefits.

She's less expensive to maintain She's easy to satisfy She has a simple eye She's obedient and submissive She's down-to-earth and respectful She knows how to manage a home She has single-minded dedication to her husband She seeks to please her husband Some men have realized this and so have returned to their roots, usually a local village, to get a woman as wife.

However, be careful when you do this.

Why?

A woman may start out simple and innocent. But that is not a guarantee that she will always remain simple and innocent.

There's a story in my locality of a man who left all the beautiful, sophisticated, and temptingly attractive women in the city to marry an amateur, innocent girl from his village.

She was a good pick. She was everything he wanted her to be. She was obedient, respectful, innocent in every respect, and hardworking.

After a long stay in the city, she started to have friends. Some of her friends turned out to be sophisticated neighbors who didn't have the patience to put up with the "bullshit of overbearing husbands".

The women were independent and 'free' whereas she was 'tied down' to a husband.

Soon she began to hang out more often with them and learn the ways of the world. Today, I hear she's a permanent resident of a hotel where she sells her womanhood for cash.

She started out as an amateur wife. As an amateur wife, she had innocence as her middle name. But things change . . . circumstances change . . . and so do people.

Here's a simple truth.

An amateur wife is innocent and unsuspecting, which is good. But then her innocence can become a weakness. She can be taken for granted. She can become easy prey in the hands of a wife lover, a spoilt friend, or a bad neighbor.

My advice?

Yes, you can go to the village and marry an innocent girl. But after you bring her to the city, be sure to educate her.