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Bad Girl - Your Lover May Be The Wrong Girl For YouA bad girl sometimes gets the right man. Good for her, bad for him. She makes his life unbearable. She drives him crazy.
No . . . absolute no. Be assured that I'm not trying to frighten you. This is just relevant reality. If you doubt what I say, look around you. Is there any man you know of who is married to a woman you think is the wrong woman for him? If so, is he happy? Is he proud to go outing with his wife? Is he proud to have her as his wife? The truth is . . . marriage becomes a huge burden if you are married to a bad girl or a bad woman. I cannot even begin to explain the pain and agony you'll feel if you're married to the wrong woman. Obviously, you want to be happy. Therefore, marry the woman just right for you. But how do you know if the girl you love is a bad girl? How do you tell if you're dating a bad woman, the wrong girl? Well, who do you consider to be a good girl? Naturally, a good girl is a girl who has good habits. She's refreshing and upbuilding. She's considerate and loving . . . and so much more. So, who is a bad girl? It follows from the above that a bad girl is one that has attitudes and behaviors opposite to that of a good girl. Let's identify some of the unhealthy behavior and habits that makes a woman a bad woman. A bad girl . . . The list is not exhaustive. I can't possibly mention it all.
1. Pay her surprise visits. If you always announce your visit, she may get everywhere clean and in order before you get there just to impress you. But you're not interested in being impressed. You don't want make-belief. So surprise her. 2. Visit at odd times occasionally. When I was courting my wife, I visited her very early one Saturday morning. You know most people sleep late on weekends. I was there at her door by 6.30am. When you visit at this time, you see the real person . . . no makeups, no artificials. Just the real person. 3. Sniff around her neighborhood. Ask people casual questions that eventually drift toward talking about the house she lives. Then slowly to her. What do her neighbors think of her? Is she a good and helpful neighbor? 4. If she is religious, speak to her pastor, church members, or anyone who shares same faith with her. A light cannot be hidden under a bed. If she's a courteous, kind, and caring person, someone will say that much. If she's cold and disinterested, someone will voice it. However, I must warn you. Don't believe everything people say. Nevertheless, But if you ask enough people, you will be able to draw a sufficiently accurate conclusion about the kind of person your lover is. But why go to all that trouble? Simply put . . . your future happiness depends on the woman you choose to marry. If she is a bad woman, the wrong woman, you're in big trouble. There usually should be a period of courtship where you try to know each other better. Do not squander your courtship days by replacing serious conversation about your future together with shallow mouthings crowned with passionate kisses. You need more than hugs and kisses to make your relationship work. You need to connect emotionally, psychologically, and realistically. The summary of it all is this. 1. Know yourself. Define what you want, what limits of behavior you will accept, and what constitutes unacceptable behavior to you. 2. Find the woman who matches your set criteria of acceptance. If you already have a woman, analyze her to be sure she meets your criteria. 3. Investigate her adequately. Confirm her claims before building trust and handing your love and life to her. A bad girl cannot change overnight. It took years to form those bad habits. It will take triple the time it took to form them to abandon them. Therefore I say, be kind to yourself. If your lover is a bad woman, look else where. She is a time-bomb. Stay away from her for your own good. Back To Home Page From Bad Girl
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