Breakup Advice - Count Your Blessings!

by ck

Yes, a break-up can provide LOTS of blessings, such as insights into why it wasn't working, how you can better enjoy your life, and what wasn't ideal . . .

You can spend more time with your children, your friends, family, or people in your community, or create hobby groups to explore some fun time too, also there's your teenagers, also known as "ogres" who can surprise you with insight and love, and arguing, and have a really nice time...

I noticed my son smiling at little jokes I made, not realizing how little time we spent together when I was with "him." Also, you might realize that you were spending so much time doing the things of your love, that your life didn't really exist, or if it did, it was only in between their activities.

Sounds, hard, however it's true, it's EASY to lose ourselves in somebody else, and we think that's love.

And when it's gone, it seems so lonely, lonely, lonely as we can't imagine anybody else to spend time with . . . . Yes, we hear be of service to others, extend ourselves in love, seek others who's hearts are sadder and lift them up, and that can be difficult if you have no energy, or hope, for a better day !!!

Relax, Take Assurance, yes, you can feel better, it takes time and all will be ok if you can look to the future and imagine a very fulfilling life !!! Yours, not theirs ...

You're too TERRIFIC to lose heart, GOD HAS A PLAN for Your Life, and it is GOOD !!! Rest Assured . . . ,

YOU ARE TERRIFIC !!!