I would advice you to move on. Let the storm blow over. Don't make any contact with him. And meet friends, do something else, take care of yourself.
I know it will not be easy, it could be one of the toughest time of your life, but it is the only way you can start to heal yourself. If he is the one for you, he will come back, if not, please accept it and move on. There are so many wonderful guys out there waiting to meet a wonderful women like you.
Nadèg
Oct 07, 2007 Rating
Try your best by: Anonymous
Dear Liza, I'm telling you that after I passed through a similar situation, but I was not at your place I was the girl who met when he travelled. I knew they had troubles and I knew that he loves me, but I just thought of the other girl and convinced him to return back to her, because I know that I can't just ruin a relationship that was good someday eventhough I loved him and wanted to be with him. now I am expecting that he may come to me someday but now if he came I know that he really loves me. I'm not a specialist but I think you must work hard to keep the love you have, look at me I could have him but I just felt that their relationship have the right to servive, so work for it, and if you didn't find any response from him just let him go because nothing will be more than troubles in your relationship.
Oct 06, 2007 Rating
Any Relationship Can Be Fixed by: Samson Itoje
No matter how bad things seem, a broken love relationship can be fixed.
However, it takes the commitment of both parties to make it happen.
In your case you want to pursue the love relationship further but your lover doesn't want anything to do with you anymore.
It will be difficult to rescue the relationship if he's unwilling to give it another try.
What can you do?
You can't undo what happened. But you can do things in ways that indicate that you're truly sorry about the fights and that you honestly want reconciliation.
He may listen and return. But there's no assurance that he will.
He travelled and came back not wanting anything to do with you.
Does he have a new girlfriend?
If the cause of your troubles is a new girl in his life, it may be really difficult to stop him loving her especially at the initial stages when the affair is smoking hot.
Bottom line.
If you love him as much as you sound, put everything you've got to rescue the love relationship.
Nevertheless, understand that he may have made up his mind about not coming back to you. If that's the case, there may be little you can do to sway him.
I'm sorry to tell you this. But some love relationships are impossible relationships. When your heart tells you your effort isn't worth it, perhaps it's time to let go.
A breakup hurts deeply. But sometimes it's the best thing to do.
