Confused. Sometimes I Enjoy Being With My Girlfriend Other Times I Don't

by TAYLOR
(COLORADO)

Sometimes when i spend time with my girlfriend i love every minute of it and sometimes i just can't wait to get away from her.

This is causing stress on our relationship.

Does this mean that i need to break up with her?


Reply By Samson Itoje

Your change in emotions does not necessarily mean you should breakup with your girlfriend.

Most likely there are things that she does sometimes that puts you off.

What you need to do is to identify those things she does that makes you want to leave her side and attempt to work it out with her.

For example, does she nag?

Nagging by a girlfriend often put guys off.

Does she have mood swings?

Some girls have terrible mood swings that can threaten a relationship. For example, she may be caring, sweet and wonderful sometimes and at other times angry, complaining, and saucy.

Whatever the problem is, identify it and discuss it with her. Together you can work out a solution.

Love is wonderful. If you truly ove her, it may be worth the effort.

Remember . . . every relationship have its own set of challenges.