Confused...?

by Urn
(Utah)

I've been seeing someone for a little bit now and I really like said person, we've been hanging out a lot and sleeping together.

Then this last weekend I asked him why he was attracted to me initially and he would not answer me. He said that that was a question you ask when you are fishing for compliments.

I was not fishing for any compliment, I wanted to know why he liked me!

This came up because I met someone else who apparently really likes me and I'm not sure why because when he and I met we were at a party and I was not sober the entire time we were together, so I asked this person why he liked me and he gave me a terrible answer.

Basically I was looking for an answer from the person I've been seeing that was an actual reason to like someone and not "I like piercings."

Anyway, since he would not answer that question I asked him what he was doing with me because we haven't said anything about what we are doing with each other, but I am not seeing anyone else. And he wouldn't answer that question either!

He is a very introverted person, as am I, but I need/want to know what's going on with us.

It has only been about two months and I definitely don't think its too early to be talking about these things, but how do you talk about them with someone who won't tell you what is on their mind?