Crazy Little Thing Called Love

Love is that emotional and spiritual connection between two people that results in eternal bonding. This bonding transcends language, color, race, and religion. Not even distance can stand in the way of love.

Love is mesmerizing and beautiful. It is the strongest emotion ever.

But, if love is that beautiful, why do people refer to it as that crazy little thing called love?

Let me explain.

Many people tend to lose their sense of rational thinking when they fall in love. If a woman is in love with a man and the man is just as much in love with her, all is well.

In this case the love is mutual. The love is 50-50 love. Consequently, they will live happily ever after.

She, however, doesn't believe him. She thinks he's just playing hard to get. If she can do this or that, he will change his mind and love her beyond her dreams.

Wishful thinking, right? But there's no stopping Joan. She keeps trying and trying, hoping and dreaming that someday she will be his woman.

After a long while, Frank finds another girl, falls in love with her, and they get married.

Joan is devastated. This is unfair. He was suppose to be with her!

Reality finally hits her. She soon realizes that she has been in love with a dream. It was all a mirage. She breaks down in tears . . . torn apart and heart broken.

Joan's case is just one example. There are countless others that emphasize that love . . . that crazy little thing called love . . . can ruin your life.

Yes, you heard right. That crazy little thing called love can ruin your life.

How?

When you fall in love, you can be so absorbed in your love that you fail to see your lover's weaknesses. Your man may be extremely violent or ill tempered. But you may be so obsessed with your love for him that it doesn't matter.

What happens after you're married?

He may not be as nice as he was before he married you. His anger may blaze over very minor issues. And before long, he may use you as a punching bag.

A young woman fell in love with an overly jealous man. He was so possessive and jealous that one afternoon he shot her point blank in her nose because he suspected there was another man in the house.

That afternoon he fired to shots. One at the girls mother for speaking up for her daughter. And the second at the girl who loved him with all her heart.

The girl survived after multiple surgery. Her mother didn't.

The young girl fell in love but she fell in love dangerously.

That crazy little thing called love can make you profoundly happy. Or make you forever unhappy.

My advice?

Fall in love with your eyes open. Don't jump into a relationship for the sake of it. Once you're emotionally connected, it's difficult to break lose.

Analyze your prospective lover with the love quiz on this site. Be absolutely sure he's in love with you before committing yourself and everything you've got to the relationship.

Love is beautiful. But fall in love the right way. Otherwise, that crazy little thing called love may ruin life as you know it now.

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