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Unfortunately, your parents don't like the man you brought home. They want you to stop the relationship and find someone new. Should you give it up? Your case is not peculiar. Parents often conclude that their beloved baby, now full grown adult, is dangerously in love when her choice of man does not match what they expect. They do everything |
As far as your parents are concerned, they are saving you tons of future trouble because they believe you're crazy in love . . . they honestly believe your sense of right and wrong is impaired by your romantic emotions.
Your parents may just be right. You may actually be dangerously in love or addicted to love , the wrong love. If their assessment of your man is correct, it may be best to terminate the relationship and find someone else.
But they may also be wrong.
If there is objective evidence that they are, you may wish to continue the relationship. Hopefully, they may eventually come to see that their objections were not based on facts and let you be.
What you choose to do is your decision and you will live with the consequences . . . good or bad.
My advice is this.
If your parents or friends think something is not right about your man, listen to their criticisms with an open mind. There may be something they know about him or his past that you do not know.
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If you listen closely, you may just find your parents have a point and that you are in reality dangerously in love. However, on close examination you may find they are simply overstating the facts or that they simply have no real objective basis for objection. In that case, their objections and claims that you are crazy in love may just be an overstatement. Whatever the case, listen to their objections with an open mind and investigate their claims. |
If they are right, have the courage to end the relationship. It is better to be single a few more years than to hurriedly get married to a man who will ruin your life.
If they turn out to be wrong, stand up for love. Help them see why your man is the best choice you could ever make. Slowly they may come around.
I faced a similar problem when I met my wife. My parents did not fall in love with her at first sight as I did. They had their reasons.
However, I stood up for her because I believed the reasons for their objections were invalid. They persuaded me to give up the relationship, but I wouldn't.
They let me have my way since I was unyielding but they were convinced I was dangerously in love.
But today they think differently. They have had a chance to experience my wife. They love her very much. Now they think I made just the right choice.
Parents tend to be protective. Sometimes they over do it and become over-protective.
Listen to your parents. Take their objections seriously. Investigate their worries.
You may discover they are right that you are dangerously in love. On the other hand, you may discover that their claims that you are crazy in love may just be an overstatement.
Help them help you.
Give your parents a chance to work with your bride-to-be . . . to experience her personality. That way, you help them reach an informed conclusion.
Are you dangerously in love? Are you crazy in love?
Weigh your options carefully. Do the right thing.
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