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The sad fact is that, more often than not, external parties benefit most when a divorce occurs. They encourage you to go ahead. "You deserve to be FREE" they say. "You deserve to live a life of your own". So, you listen to their divorce advice and set out to live a life of your own. Sooner or later, you discover you don't really want to live life alone. You don't desire to be by yourself . . . independent and living for yourself. You want to be with someone you love and who loves you in return. Then you begin to miss your ex. You begin to remember those exciting moments you shared together and wish you could return to those good old days. Unfortunately, he or she may be out of reach. You wish you hadn't heeded that divorce advice! Okay, not everyone who is divorced wish they could return to their ex and continue where they left off. It depends on the causes or reasons for the divorce. Some aggrieved spouse actually throw a divorce party when they finally succeed with their divorce. They are more like "good riddance to bad rubbish". Honestly, some mates are like bad rubbish. They tie you down. They're insensitive, inconsiderate, insatiable, and extremely difficult to please. Partners in such a love relationship carry a heavy burden. And it's often a big relief for them to finally get out of the love relationship. Should you heed the divorce advice you've been given and break free from your mate? That is a personal decision. Some folks work hard to rescue their love relationship . . . and they succeed. Then they live happily ever after. Some others jump out the door at the first sign of trouble. Whatever the reasons for a breakup or divorce, coping with divorce is not easy. It is often heartbreaking. And, quite often, parties involved end up with a broken heart that takes time to heal. Even if you have sound basis to divorce your partner, you still have to deal with the wave of emotions that hit you after the divorce. Bottom line. Before you take that divorce advice and call it quits with your mate, think twice. You promised to be with her all her life and through thin and thick. You promised . . . so, why do you want to leave at the first sign of trouble? Think twice. This could be the biggest mistake of your life.
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