Everlasting Love Is Hard To Find - But You Can

Everlasting love is all time love. It is love without end. It is self-sacrificing love.

This kind of love bears all things. It overcomes challenges. It stands the test of time. But is everlasting love really possible? Isn't it just a fantasy?

The increase in divorce rate has given birth to new forms of love relationship. Today people practice open marriages. This type of marriage is one in which the man and woman in the relationship are free to have other sexual partners beside themselves.

Other couples are less extreme. However, they prefer live in relationships in which the man and woman in the relationship do not get legally married but live together.

They share responsibilities for bills payment and generally live as husband and wife. They stay together and practice monogamy. But they agree to remain live-in partners. They do not want the burden of legal marriage.

What's the advantage of this?

Well, with live-in and open relationships, commitment is loose. Breakup is easier. In the event of a breakup, there is no need to fill out some lengthy and winding divorce papers.

When the relationship is over, either party pick up their belongings and hit the road. At the next stop they each pick new partners.

Now you know why I understand your point of view if you're skeptical about the viability of everlasting love.

Today there is greater freedom of expression. Movies that promote violence are common. Movies that promote flirting are also commonplace. Pornography is big business.

What is the impact of all of this?

Many men are less sensitive. They are less committed. They are morally weak. They want a one night stand. Far too many men are in the hit and run business.

Start a relationship with them and the next thing they want is sexual intercourse. And once they've got that over and over, they are out the door looking for a new catch.

If you have been jilted before, you understand how painful this can be.

Is everlasting love possible?

Of course, it is.

Are there still good men out there?

Oh, yes.