its okay to feel for someone else and still be in a relationship...as long as u dont let it affect u and him ..if it does u need to rtalk to him and tell him whats wrong see how he will handle it he might be going thur the same thing and u guys can work thru it together ...but about the guy over the summer it was just that a summer fling..if he isnt willing to try to find what feelings u guys had then he isnt worth ur time..rejection truly does hurt ..and as far as crying everyday theres sooooo many guys out there that r just as cute and wont do u wrong n can be ur soulmate...u just gotta accept the rejection and learn how to play ur cards sweety..
Jan 26, 2008 Rating
no need for confusion by: Anonymous
I can empathize with you on this one because I have been in a similar situation.
The thing that you need to remind yourself is that he said that he didn't still like you.
I know its hard because sometimes the words that people speak do not parallel the way that they act either presently or before.
Still, you have to accept what ever behavior he is putting out there and just deal with it and move on.
If he was rude to you in anyway, unjustifiably, then he is not the wonderful person that you are building him up to be in your head. Realize that, and remind yourself of that.
As for your current boyfriend that you are not in love with, it sounds like if you know that you are not in love with him then you should break up with him, its not fair to him.
I suspect that part of the reason that your not in love with him is because your still hung up on the other boy, and you will never make your peace with that if you stay with your boyfriend because you're afraid people will think your only breaking up to be with the other guy.
You should take some time for yourself so that you can sort out your feelings. And hopefully, the next relationship will be fully reciprocal and much more fulfilling. Good luck!
