Girl Fight - Girls Fighting Over Man. Is It Worth It?

"Girl fight is a common phenomenon. When two girls fighting over a man are at each other's throat, the fight is usually passionate".

But wait. Is it worth it?

In any case, why would two or more girls need to descend so low as to fight over a man?

Simple answer . . . they are in love.

Let me explain.

Usually, when two girls fight over a man, the man in question would have had some relationship with both girls. Outright girl fight is an indication that the relationship the man in question had with them was more than just friendship or casual interaction.

Put differently, the lover boy promised each girl at different times that he would love each and be there for each always. Each of the girls believed his story and built their lives around him and the promise of a blissful relationship.

What this means is that each girl is in love with this man. And this relationship with Mr. perfect, or so they thought, was suppose to last forever.

The feeling of loss and disappointment at seeing their cherished dream burst like a bubble in front of their eyes is often the reason for the fighting.

Bottom line.

Two girls fighting over a man is a desperate attempt by each to save a relationship . . . an attempt to hold on to a man, a lover, that is slipping away.

Look in the eyes of the two fighting girls. You will see passion there. You will see a determination to win the battle. Obviously, they are truly in love with this man.

Would you fight over a man? Is it worth it?

If your lover, if your dream man is slipping away, there is a natural tendency to want to get him back. If you find that the reason for his drifting from you is another woman, you would naturally want to protect your territory.

Protecting your territory means confronting the woman threatening your love relationship and your chance at future marriage with the man you love.

When you confront your competitor, your reason may not be to get into a girl fight. You simply want to tell her the man she's after is your man and has been your man for ages. You simply want to let her know she's intruding into your territory and that she should quietly back off.

Good reasoning.

Unfortunately, the girl competing with you for your man may not agree to back off. She too is in love with your man. For her, walking away from the relationship simply because you said so or you met the man before she did may not be an option.

The reality is . . . most competing girls would rather go for a girl fight than leave your man alone.

Now you have two options.

Option #1: Girl fight with your competitor to get her off your man by force.

Option #2: Do nothing. Leave it to your man to decide whom he wants. Fire him if he is indecisive or delays.

Most girls choose the first option. They go all out for a girl fight. And they use every tool at their disposal. That is why stories of girls fighting over a man is so common.

Some girls even take it further. They also fight their lover, desperately seeking to hurt him for hurting them. Their thirst for revenge end up hurting their own chances for joy.

So, what should you do? Is fighting another girl over your man worth it?

In my candid opinion, it is not.

If your man is having a relationship with another woman, simply ask him. If he confirms the rumors or you have proof that he is actually seeing another woman, ask him why.

If he is remorseful and agrees to stop the relationship and stick to you alone, consider continuing the relationship. If he is not or he is indecisive, the relationship is not worth it.

On the other hand, if he is not remorseful or declines to terminate his relationship with the other woman immediately, you know he is a playboy. He is a flirt. And a flirt is a candidate for divorce.

So, if you're not married to him yet, it is better to forget the relationship. He is proud to cheat on you. And he will cheat on you again.

Getting into a girl fight with your competitor over your man will do little good. The problem is not with the other girl. The problem is with your man who is chasing the other girl.

Stories of girls fighting over a man almost always end up in disaster. In an attempt to win your man back and prove you're not a loser, you may do hideous and crazy things against your opponent . . . things you may regret all your life.

Besides, if you win this girl fight, what are the chances that your man won't cheat on you again when he runs into another pretty girl? How many more girl fight are you willing to fight in your lifetime?

Girls fighting over a man . . . don't be one of them!

If you fall in love with a man and then discover he is not committed to you alone, don't force him. Don't get into a girl fight to prove a point . . . any point. It is not worth the trouble and heartache.

Instead, walk away from the relationship. Men are surplus . . . they are everywhere.

There is some man out there who will treat you like an angel. There is a man out there, somewhere close, who will love you 100% and treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

So, don't throw away your dignity and decorate history with your name in a list of girls fighting over a man.

Be smart.

"Take what's rightfully yours. The man who is right for you is the man who is dedicated to you and you alone.

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