Hate it or Love It, Your One love
Must Be For One Person

Hate it or love it one love is best. One love is true love single-mindedly given to one person. Hate it or love it, this is the happiest way to live.

I tell you this without mincing words because I want you to be happy.

Playboys and playgirls won't agree with this. Flirting men and women will disagree with me. However, it doesn't matter who agrees or who doesn't. This is a fact of life. Each person has only one life and only one true love. That one love . . . that one true love must be single-mindedly given to one person or else there will be trouble.

Do you really want to be happy? If so . . .

1. Do not date more than one man at a time. The purpose of dating is to evaluate your partner's suitability for long-term relationship . . . his suitability for marriage.

2. Do not flirt. Flirting is for the shallow-minded and those destined for ruination. Flirting may seem like great fun in the beginning, but afterward it returns to hurt its best clients.

3. Do not cheat on your spouse. Do not cheat on your fiance. You can't hide it forever. Sooner or later he will find out. And your satisfied lust will become an unbearable shame.

Here is some good bad news.

Your man may not find out that you have cheated on him . . . at least not in the short-term. But you know you have. The feeling of guilt will continually weigh at your heart and drain you of happiness in the relationship. Either way you loose.

Does all of this sound like ancient 13th century standard of morality?

It may sound so on the surface. But in reality, hate it or love it, it is the rock bottom truth.

Let's get realistic.

Sit back and evaluate what happens in real life to real people that you know or see in reality TV.

What usually happens when a woman finds out that her husband has been cheating on her? How does a woman feel when she discovers her husband has been having an affair with another woman . . . no matter how short or casual the affair?

You know the answer.

The cheated wife is angry that her beloved husband she trusted with her life has given the one love meant for her, and her alone, to a strange woman. Soon anger turns to . . . Uneasiness Raging feeling of distrust Widening gap in the relationship Separation of living quarters Separation of assets Divorce

Of course not every case of infidelity leads to divorce. The innocent party may choose to forgive the erring party and continue in one love. But the pressure on the relationship can be overwhelming. It can be so thick you could cut it with a knife.

Dear friend, I will say it again . . . hate it or love it, the happiest way to live and sustain your family's unity and love is to love your man single-mindedly. Give your one love . . . your one undying love to just one man . . . your husband.

If you doubt what I say, ask yourself why women whose husbands cheated on them feel so bad about the affair.

Without doubt, these women expected their husband to have no one else in his life except them. In simple terms . . . one man to one woman. One love (man) for one love (woman).

You get the point?

Hate it or love it, this is what we all want.

This is what you want. You want your husband to give you, and only you, his undivided attention.

You want his . . .