He Ask Out His Ex Girlfriend

Is she really his ex-girlfriend or he's just flirting with you and the other girl is his girlfriend?

You need to be sure if you're his girlfriend or the other girl is.

Another thing.

Are they still hanging out?

If they are, then she's not really his ex-girlfriend.

Here's how love relationships go.

Two people meet each other and fall in love. Things go smoothly for a while and then problems arise. They mismanage the conflict and they fall apart.

But deep down they still love each other.

After several months they come to their senses. They both admit the conflict between them was not as bad as they made it appear. They apologize and start all over again.

Unfortunately, they each may have found new partners. But the desire to get back may be too strong to let go. So they get back.

The sad part is that the man may not have the guts to tell his new love that he has made up with his ex. So, it becomes a secret love relationship with him dating two girls.

This is not always the case. But it does happen.

Is that what is happening with your man? Is it that he has fallen in love with you while still holding on to the love for his ex girlfriend?

You need to find out if you're being used.

How?

Ask him a pointed question.

"I see you're on good terms with your ex girlfriend. Are you back together?"

Most likely he will say no.

Ask for her number. Then call her and let him speak with her. All you want is for him to deliver a polite breakup message to his ex.

It should be something like this . . .

That is a long line. But I hope you get the gist.

She will likely respond to his speech. So it will pay you if there's a way you could listen in on the conversation.

Another thing.

He should promise to minimize if not eliminate reasons for contact with her. Love die hard.

Repeated contacts between them at work or social gatherings can spark up a renewal of the love they had for each other.

Whatever you do, do not become a pain in his neck. Don't make his ex-girlfriend the subject for discussion every time you meet.

Now to the other side of the coin.

If you find out he is getting back with his ex girlfriend and he's determined to keep the relationship, don't live in fool's paradise.

I will say it again . . . love die hard. A man's first true love relationship is usually deep. And it's difficult to break free from the grip of it.

So, if he's getting back with his ex girlfriend, it's not because you've been a bad lover. It's a battle he has to fight with his feelings.

If he chooses to go to her, let him go. Don't become like a concubine he flirts with while maintaining a healthy love relationship with his ex.

It will break your heart if he leaves you, but now is better than later.

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