He doesn't understand me

Today he accidentally makes a girl fall and hit her head. He apologizes all day and texts her saying sorry. She calls him telling him it's ok and he apologizes still.

He can make me cry and all he does is send one message saying sorry and how he screwed up. He doesn't go out of his way to say sorry for me.

He says he would do that with anyone he hurt but I tell him he doesn't do it with me. I have jealousy issues and I was just trying to explain to him how that made me feel like he wants me to do but he gets mad and starts being a smart elic.

Later I tried to explain how it feels he doesn't understand me at all when it matters most. He barely responds to it. I know he loves me and I love him to death.

I don't know what to do to get through to him, though. Can you help?

Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor

It's a good thing you noticed this. It's a common thing with people.

Most people, men and women, tend to be more loving and caring to people outside the home than they are to people inside their home.

I guess we take our folks for granted because they are always there for us.

You have learnt a vital lesson . . . show more love, compassion, and consideration to people you love than to outsiders because they are the people who are always tehre for you.

Your man is yet to understand your point of view. I will advice that you give him time. Something will happen sooner or later that will make him appreciate your point of view.

You love him, he loves you. So, don't sweat it.

Sometimes no matter how hard you try, it takes experience for some people to learn a vital life lesson.

Be good. Keep loving him. As the bible says, "Love covers a multitude of sins".