He Is Known For Flirting Big Time

A year ago I met a guy named D_. The first time I saw him i liked him right on the dot. We dated but it did not last long (i let rumors get the best of me unfortunately.)

But I still strongly like him and a year later I still do but I have not told him, not anyone. Not even my friend who help hook us up.

He is known for flirting big time. Was that the rumor you heard when you first dated him? If it is, then it's no longer a rumor since he now flirts right in front of you.

Why does he do that?

It could be because he wants you to feel jealous and so get you to come back to him. Or he may simply want you to know that he doesn't care that you're no longer interested in him.

He may be saying, "I can get any girl I want, even girls prettier and smarter than you. So I don't care if you leave or stay".

The later option seems to be the correct one because he is known to flirt big time. Flirting is a way of life for him.

But you still love him despite his despicable attitude.

Wait. Is it love you feel or just a long lasting crush?

It could be love or it may just be a long lasting crush.

What's the difference?

True love is based on reality. And it is a shared feeling. Love is a two-way phenomenon. You love him and he loves you in return.

When two people love each other, they plan for the future together. If he loves you, he will make you a part of his plans. And he will share his thoughts and aspirations with you while also paying keen interest as you tell him yours.

Love is clear-sighted. Crush is blind obsession . . . a chronic 'disease'.

Is what you feel for him a long lasting crush?

You can't reach that conclusion until first you tell him your feelings for him and how angry you feel when you see him flirting with other girls . . . in front of you or behind your back.

Now watch his reaction. Does he want a love relationship? Does he love you? Does he have any affection for you?

If the answer to all three questions is 'No', you know this dream isn't likely to happen.

What happens now that you know?

Obviously, it's not realistic to expect you to forget him and your beautiful dream of a love relationship with him. It takes time to forget.

However, if you adamantly insist on having a love relationship with him against his will and desperately fight to get him so much so that it becomes an overwhelming obsession, then you have a dangerous crush. And you need professional help.

I doubt if your situation has gone that far.

What you need right now is to clear things up with your love. Tell him exactly how you feel about him and find out if there's any hope of him loving you as much as you love him.

If he's out of reach, look elsewhere for love. If you look hard enough and with a loving heart, your heart will lead you to where true love is.

When you finally find love, remember I told you.

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