How Could He Just Stop Loving Me?

So ... I've been going out with this boy since 9th grade. Now we're in 11th grade.

We've been on and off.

Recently I've heard so many things about him since he is a star basketball player at my school. He is popular among the girls.

He told me I was his love and we would always be together. Also he called me his "wife". I love him. But recently we haven't spoke in about a month and last time we spoke he said he still cared about me a lot. But when I asked him if he loved me he would avoid it. It makes me soooo upset. How can he be doing this to me?

And I've heard he's getting with all these girls.

I don't know what to do. I want to get over it and move on but I love him and want to know how could he just stop loving me from one day to another!!!!

HELP

My Reply

You must understand that sportsmen get a lot of attention from girls. Girls practically run after them.

Many girls beg sportsmen to give them attention . . . even if it's just a little attention.

Unfortunately, many men can't handle the pressure. One moment they are 'nobody' and the very next, they're the toast of the crowd.

Fame sometimes make people forget their friends. Is your man in this category?

Perhaps he is.

You said you've been together since 9th grade. At that time he was sweet . . . he said then you were his love. And he even called you his wife. But now he can't even say "I love you" anymore.

Now things have changed. You haven't spoken in a month. And the last time you spoke, he couldn't get round to say he loves you.

How could he just stop loving you?

Hey, wait.

Before you reach that conclusion, you need to be sure he has stopped loving you.

You've heard he's getting down with all these girls. Is that true? Have you tried to verify the rumors? Have you asked him about it?

You say you love him. If you really do, you will be interested in what's happening to him.

Here's what's happening to him. The girls are all over him. And some of these girls are stunning, dazzling, awe-inspiring, incredibly and absolutely beautiful. And some are desperate. They will do anything to get a man they fancy. Your man faces another challenge besides the girls swarming round him.

He faces the challenge of managing fame and fortune. Not everyone can.

Take a look at celebrities. Many live weird lives. It's almost as if a new spirit takes over when one becomes popular.

Celebrities seem to think they have the world at their finger tips. And they feel they can do just about anything and get away with it.

Only a few people get fame and fortune and still keep their head. Take a count of celebrities that are 'sane', and you will understand how bad things can be.

Your man has become a celebrity of some sort. He may manage it well or he may lose his head.

What can you do?

First, try and connect with him again. Find out what the matter is with him.