How Do I Get Her To Go Out With Me?

There's this girl that I like and she's one of my friend's friend. I've only met her a few times but I really like her and she barely knows me.

How do I get her to go out with me?

My Reply

You can't get her to go out with you until first you connect with her. When you do and she likes what she sees and hears, she may then choose to go out with you. Even after she begins to like you, you still have to ask her out. How do you connect with her? What approach should you use? Use the approach you consider best in the present circumstances.

Here's one approach . . . the direct approach.

Here's another . . . a real life story I heard on radio.

George was a young man in a dilemma like you. He loved a girl name Rose and wanted to share his life with her.

He admired her from a distance. She was so compelling he didn't know how to approach her.

Eventually he developed a plan that will ultimately get them talking. What did he do?

He watched her timing to know when she usually left home. Then one day he followed her with his car behind hers right from her home. She drove along oblivious of the fact that she was being followed.

When they got to a traffic jam, he deliberately bumped his car against hers.

She got out of her car furious. He apologized and gave her his card. He promised to fix her car. And then asked for her number so he could give it to his driver who would come pick her car for repairs the following day.

The following day he showed up at her home with the excuse that his driver was out of town. He promised to take the car himself.

Thereafter one thing led to another and today they're best of friends.

Hey, don't go bumping this girl's car!

Bottom line.

There's no limit to the approach you can use to win this girl's heart. Do what's best. Get creative or just use the direct approach.

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