how do i get my ex back?

by paige
(USA)

i've been with him for three months now. im a gemini and he is a sagittarius. the situation is that we both want each other badly and he has actually told me he lusts for me. he wants to have sex with me. but i have refused simply because im not ready and feel that it is too early.

we both have great conversations and can keep each other excited for days. he was really caring and respected me but slowly after he asked me if i knew a couple of his friends which i did meet over net. nothing else. he then acted all funny about it as if he was jealous or curious.

he does care because little things he does like if i get upset he would ring me straight away to find out why? we get on like a house on fire. but i think we both are confused.

he wants freedom he.

he is young and likes flirting alot i dont mind i know i can keep him entertained but when it comes to sex talk i prefer to get to know him more and trust before we talk like that.

i really cant stop thinking about him it has only been a month since we split up and within that month he has told me that "i miss u" and calls me "baby" acting like he used to when he was my bf so worried about me and sending me loads of kisses.

he rang me one night trying to have phone sex but i wasnt really interested as i was sleepy and didnt find it necessary to talk like that. i give him space that he needs, he loves his freedom.

i have never phoned him. but im fully committed to him and i really do believe i am falling in love with him. i wait till he's online and when he texts or phones me.

at this moment of time we are just friends since yesterday conversation where i told him if he wanted sex i wasnt the one. he hasnt been distant but is treating me like a friend now. i want him back but maybe it might take time?

let him have fun and freedom and he could see im the one?

i mean we are fantastic couple. i have told him that he told he wants me, he likes me a alot but is there a chance i could get him back?

please help me.

thank you.