How Do I Know If My Lover Is In Love With Me?

by Frank
(Phoenix, AZ)

My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 2 months.

I have liked her for over a year. We have slept together just once. She is 48 and I'm 56. I tell her I'm in love with her, but it is not returned.

On occassion she will say she likes me. How do I know if she realy loves me or not? She has been hurt in the past.