how do you become confident in talking to girls that you really like?
by Liquid boy
(Neverland )
I am quite a talkative person. i can chat away to any girls, even if i dont really know them but
It seems anyone that i really like i turn into a babbling mess and say stupid stuff and do stupid stuff. I just cant help it!
I get really scared and sometimes even shake and its really getting me down. I won't give my age but im still in school and i just want to know how i can be more confident around a girl that i may really like ?
Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor
Perhaps you're trying too hard to impress the girls you like. When a guy tries too hard, he ends up doing things that are unbelievable like doing stupid stuff or saying stupid stuff to get the girl's attention.
My advice?
Don't try too hard.
If you like a girl, behave like you don't like her. The truth is, girls get attracted to guys who are too serious to notice them.
They wonder, "who is that guy that isn't moved when I step in? Who's that guy that is not falling all over a pretty girl like me when other guys are tumbling and falling over themselves to grab my attention?"
It's a funny world.
The reality is . . . the less you push and allow things to flow naturally, the more girls notice you.
Please read this article on the art of seduction
Try the strategy discussed above. You will be pleasantly surprised.