I Am A Separated Woman In Love With A Bachelor. How Do I Win Him And Make Him Love Me Genuinely?

by Sandhya
(Amritsar, Punjab, India)

I am in love with a man and he often responds to my feelings too. I believe he is also interested in me. But the problem is, I am separated and he is a bachelor.

But, still I think he likes me. He asked me that he missed me. Please suggest how to win and make him love me genuinely from his heart. I want him to tell me that he really loves me.

Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor

This guy already likes you. That means you're doing something right or there is something about you that he likes and that attracted him to you.

Keep true to yourself and keep doing that which you have been doing that he likes.

One other thing.

Ask him, between conversations and when he is in a good mood, "what is it you like about me?"

The truth is . . . many people fail to ask the right questions in a relationship. And that often lead to problems later. Don't make that mistake.

Enhance the communication bridge between you by asking, "what attracted you to me? What is it that I did that made you want to be friends with me?"

If he is an honest guy, he will tell you.

Will he love you genuinely?

It depends on the kind of person he is. If he is a guy who doesn't want a long-term or serious relationship, then his 'love' will not lead where you want it to lead.

My advice?

Try to get on the same page as he is.

You know what you want from this relationship. But what does he want?

If his goals and aspirations are different from yours, trying to win him will be a waste of time and resources.

Therefore the very first thing yiu need to do is to ask him all the questions that border you.