I Am Attracted To A Trans Sexual. What Can I Do?
I went out as a friend to a trans-sexual and had a great time. but now I cant stop thinking about him. I have been getting aroused when I think of him.
What can I do?
Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor
I am assuming the trans sexual you're talking about is a woman turned man and you are a woman attracted to her. (I am assuming this because you did not indicate your sex).
I will look at this from a Christian's perspective because I am a Christian.
Sex change is not something authorized in the Christian scriptures, the Bible. Since that is the case, if someone is born as a man or a woman, he remains a man or a woman irrespective of changes resulting for surgery.
That means having a sexual relationship with this woman is equivalent to being a lesbian. And that is unscriptural.
You're aroused when you think of her or him?
Then maybe you should not be thinking of her. Understand that she is a she even if she claims to be a he. If you think of it that way, you may be less inclined to be aroused by her.