I Am Divorced And Having Trouble Finding Someone Else. Girls I LOve Don't Want To Continue With Me When They Know I Am Divorced.

I am an engineer and instructor in a university. I work hard and am living a comfortable life.

For long I was looking for true lover. While my fiance, she pretended so and we got married. I discovered that she is in love with someone 3 weeks after our wedding day.

She tried to kill me different ways. We stayed 5 months together with a lot of struggle and I divorced here in court formally.

I breathed a sigh of relief for divorcing her before getting dead. It is 3 years now since I divorced her and I have never regreted I divorced her, I am happy about my decision.

But my problem is even girls I love and start relationship with leave me when they discover that I am divorced. A lot of struggle in this area. I don't know what to do about this.

Should I hide until they fell in love with me to point of no break before I tell them I am divorced?

Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor

You will find some girls or even a lot of girls who do not want to have a love relationship with someone who is divorced partly because they are scared you may divorce them too or they have heard bad stories about you and your ex-wife.

Whatever the reasons these women discontinue their relationship with you, you can be sure you will find someone of like mind sooner or later.

Another thing.

Take a second look at how you treat these women in your life. Is there something you are missing? Is there something you are doing wrong? Are you unconsciously acting in a particular way towards them because of the bad experience with your ex-wife?

Think about it 360 degrees . . . back and forth, round and round.

It could be 100 percent the women's fault. Or you could be contributing to the problem someone.

If you do a honest assessment of the situation and your response to and treatment of women, you could find what the real issues are and deal with them appropriately.

Remember, winners never quit and quitters never win. And love is wonderful.

So keep searching. Keep trying. Don't quit!