I Am In A Relationship With A Married Woman Who Still Makes Love To Her Husband Instead of Me

by Neil
(Canada)

I am in a relationship with a women who is still making love to her husband who she loves very little. she has 4 kids and wants to keep the peace in the family because she fears that her kids will disown her because of the relationship. She loves me way more then her husband and only stays with him because of the kids.

I love her so much and she loves me very much. we want to marry in the future but she will not give up the kids for me which i understand.

but I am jealous of her making love to her husband who is a control freak and because of that we rarely get together.the more I love her the more I am jealous of her love making because I think of him on top of her and it should be me.I talked to her about it but she doesn't like me jealous and told me to not think about it.but its hard for me not too.

What should I do????

Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor

Let me re-phrase what you described above.

You are having a sexual relationship with a married woman and you are jealous that she is sleeping with her husband to whom she is legally married.

Let me be straight with you.

What you are doing is absolutely wrong. She is committing adultery with you and you feel good about it.

You are committing a grave sin!

Have you tried putting yourself in her husband's shoes? If you are married and your wife is having an affair with another man, how would you feel?

Proud? Happy?

I strongly advise you leave this woman alone. There are millions of single women looking for a man to love them. Find one of them and fall in love.

Get your own wife!