True Love Advisor Newsletter - April 2008 Edition

I Am In Love With A Married Man

Unfortunately, none of the men who cross your path fit into your lifestyle and none are good enough to be your lover.

Then suddenly, out of nowhere, you meet the perfect gentleman . . . the man just right for you.

He's gorgeous, confident, understanding, caring, sensitive, empathetic, awesome. His smile send waves of excitement through your body. His touch . . . oh, how amazing! When he opened his mouth and spoke, he sounded like an angel.

This man was sent to you straight from heaven! You have finally found your dream man!

You have a great time together. And you're sure your woes are over.

Then one day he drops a bombshell . . . he tells you he's married.

"Why didn't he tell you that before? Why did he raise your hopes? Why is he going out with you when he knows he's married? Why is he playing with your emotions?"

You ask him all the serious questions in quick succession, your eyes red with rage.

He calms you down. He tells you he loves you. He assures you he's not playing with your emotions. He tells you you're better than his wife and that he would have married you straight away if not for the fact that he's already married. And he promises to be there for you always.

He even takes it further.

You rationalize that he's not cheating on his wife because she deserves to lose him. He's a perfect gentleman. His wife deserves to lose him to you because she doesn't appreciate him. You will care for him more than any other woman can . . . and much better than his wife does.

Hi, sister. Please stop and think.

First, this man is cheating on his wife with you. He can give you a thousand reasons why he's doing what he's doing. But the truth is that he's cheating on his wife. If he does this to his wife, what are the chances that he won't do it to you if you succeed in 'snatching' him from his wife?

Second, don't judge a book by its cover. This man may be telling this awful stories about his wife to justify his love relationship with you. His wife may not be a bad wife. He may actually be a bad and flirty husband.

Third, how far will this relationship go? What happens when his wife finds out? (Don't kid yourself. Nothing stays secret forever. She will find out sooner or later.) When his wife finds out you've been stealing the love meant for her . . . there will be war. And the final outcome won't be pleasant.

My advice?

Find your own man. It is wrong to date a married man.

Why?

First, you're promoting unfaithfulness. You're stealing the man from the rightful owner . . . his wife.

Second, you're sinning against God because God detest adultery.

Third, you're playing with fire. Not every woman will take this lying low. Many will fight back. They will declare war on any woman that dare to mess with their man. And the consequences can be disastrous for you.

If you're in love with a man and you later discover he's married, let him go. terminate the love relationship. Search for someone else.

It is the right thing to do. It is the smart thing to do.

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