I Am In Love With My Partner And My Ex Boyfriend

i have been with my partner for about 2 years now and i love him to bits but before we got together i was with someone else for about a year and he was my first love and i think about him constantly.

I know i am still in love with him. I just dont know what to do.

Please help!

Reply By Samson Itoje

You may not like the sound of this, but . . . you cannot love two people equally at the same time.

You are in love with what use to be and in love with what is.

The truth is . . . you will lose your current love relationship if you decide to stay stuck in the past.

You know why?

Simply put . . . men don't like unfaithful women.

The converse is also true . . . Women don't like unfaithful men.

A woman is created to be with one man. And a man one woman. Whenever that law of nature is broken due to unfaithfulness of either party, sadness and unhappiness sets in.

You are being unfaithful to your current love by actively nursing feelings for your ex.

My advice?

Stop. And Stop NOW!

You are threading on dangerous ground. Forget your ex and stick to your current love.

He abandoned you, remember?

Besides, you said you love your current partner to bits. How can you throw that away because of some fantasy?

Wake up to your current love and shutdown your previous love and any tunes associated with it in your head and mind.

Otherwise . . . you could lose everything.