I am married but i have dreams about my high school crush

by Jennifer
(Austin )

I have been married for 4 months going on 5. I love my husband dearly, he's the best man in the world, promise.

But for the past two nights i have been dreaming about my high school crush.

What do i do, do i tell my husband about it? who do i tell?

My mind is going crazy.

Reply By Samson, Love Counselor

What you have is just a dream. And you can dream about anything. What happens when you are asleep is mostly out of your control.

However, some situations can generate a dream.

For example, have you been thinking about this crush of yours lately? Did you run into something, for example pictures or items, that reminded you of him?

Whatever it is that fired the dream, it is still just a dream. You can either keep it as a dream or make it a reality.

The current reality is that you are married to a wonderful guy who adores you.

If I were in your shoes, I will do everything in my power to ensure nothing disrupts the peaceful exciting love relationship you have.

You should stop the dreaming . . . take control of your life and your love by deliberately and decisively shutting out feelings for and thoughts about your crush.

Spend more time with your husband, do things for him, surprise him. Let your world revolve around him.

Soon, he will migrate to your dreams too. Oh, what sweet dream!

Don't lose this wonderful love. Stop the dreams about your crush before they stop you!