I am not in love with my husband. I love someone else.

by babydoll
(california)

i have a relationship with someone other then my husband. However, my husband tells me he loves me and tells me he will die if i leave him.

We've been together for 9yrs and i have been with this other person for 2yrs and i feel im not in love with my husband. I'm in love with someone else.

How will i know if im not in love with my husband and love someone else?

Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor

It is sad to hear that you are not in love with your husband.

Think about it.

Why did you marry him in the first place? Was it love? If it was love, what happened to the love? Did it cool off with age?

If there was love and now the love is gone, what is the gaurantee that the same thing won't happen with this new guy?

Listen.

People often desire what they do not have. You likely desire this guy because he has something great, something missing in your husband.

You have seen your husband inside out. There is nothing else to see. The excitement is gone.

I can assure you that the exact same thing will happen after spending 2 to 5yrs with this new guy.

My advice?

Love your husband. Rekindle the love you had for him before you get married. Fall in love with him all over again.

He says he's going to die if you leave him?

That is love!

This is the kind of love most women seek. Don't throw it away for some flimsy flirting game with a guy who can leave you any time. Married women who tried this before you didn't find peace. There is no gaurantee that you will.

Men can be dead tricky. Now that yu have one that truly loves you, don't throw it away. This kind of love is hard to find.

If you do throw it away and go with this new guy, someday this new guy will remind you that you are not trustworthy or reliable. That you broke your marriage vow and that there is no reason not to believe you will do it again.

Bottom line.

Don't do this evil.