I am on the verge of breaking up with my boyfriend

by harjeet
(india)

our relationship started and became strong during the bad phase of our life. i have been cheated by my husband and his family.

he was involved with another girl and after one month of marriage my husband was absconding, and my friend he was going through his bad marriage and business phase (and he was the one who was helping me in legal matter of my marriage to get dissolve).

as we both were emotionally drained we felt we got very close our limitaion crossed without any commitment to each other.

for two years everything was fine, then, i came to know about his involvement with his college friend who was 17 years younger than him.

i tried my level best to save our reltionship every time he lied that its just attraction and his business requirement to get infomation from her college.

he started dating her.

we use to talk regulary but suddenly i found during the time where he is call me, started talking to his college for hour, and calls me only after three days or four days because of which we started having arguments.

i feel very lost and negative. I lost my confidence and feel that he just used me physcally.

now his college girl is getting married and he want to continue our relationship.

I can't trust him anymore.

what should i do? continue or discontinue?