I Am So Confused. Please Help!

by Chelsea
(Connecticut)

I like two guys.

One is this guy who lives three houses down from me and he has the most gorgeous eyes that I catch staring at me all the time.

He's someone I could really see myself with. He seems so amazing. But the other is my ex.

I haven't stopped thinking about him since the day I first saw him and even after we went out I still didn't stop.

It was a bad break up and we ended up not talking for a month. It wasn't bad for bad reasons, though. We only broke up cause we were too busy to see each other and we both hated that.

He told me he felt bad every day he couldn't see me. It was hard letting go, for both of us I think.

The day we broke up he took me out of his profile but that weekend I checked it and I was back in it with a broken heart next to my name and his away message was depressed.

I told him I still liked him after that. I sent him a message but he never responded so I got confused and after a week I told his best friend I was over him.

Then I tried to talk to him like a friend but he didn't ever talk back. And then he started dating someone else.

I had a hard time getting over him but then I met the new guy and I thought I did get over my ex.

But monday he asked to be friends again after a month of ignoring me and I got the same old feeling (butterflies, and my breathing stopped)and after talking for an hour and a half yesterday I know I like him again.

His best friend and I talked too yesterday and he said that they have a good conversation about me after he and his new girlfriend broke up a week ago.

They said I was the best girlfriend he had ever had and the only good person he ever liked.

Also, when I was talking to him he asked me about my relationships since him (none). I told him about the new guy and he said, "oh . . . Thats cool."

Then I said I thought it may be one of those things where it wasn't gonna go beyond a crush and he said, "Lol. I know exactly what you mean."

I don't know what to do. I like them both but I don't know who to choose.

Did I ever really get over my ex? Should I forget about him and go for the new guy?

Do I have a chance with him? I am so confused. Please if you could offer some Guidance??

C.G.