I broke Up With My Boyfriend. Now I Cant Cope With The Trauma

by sarthika
(mumbai,maharashtra,india)

a guy approached me in december 2008 but i went into a relation in november 2009. we were in a relationship for a month.

i was damn serious 4 him. i used to wait for 3 hours drenched in rain for him. but all i got from him was a cold hi!!!

a few days later he started loosing interest in me and i broke up with him. he is going around saying that he dumped me.

i cant get over this trauma and keep crying the whole day and night.

some of my (guy) friends came more closer to me during this period i feel an attraction for them but i am not ready for another relationship please help.

Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor

Breakups can be terrible. It can be one of the most difficult things to get over.

However, you still have to move on despite the blow to your heart.

A great way to evaluate breakup is to look at the benefits. Yes, see the good part of the breakup and not the bad.

What are the benefits of a breakup?

The biggest benefit is that you won't have to be stuck with a loser all your life.

Isn't that great!

Think about it. There are three classes of love relationships that eventually graduate into marriage.

Class A: The man and the woman are always at each other's throat and are constantly quarreling or fighting. That notwithstanding they still went ahead and got married. Consequently, there is never a moment of peace in the marriage.

Class B: The woman is seriously in love but the man is non-chalant and takes her for granted. She desperately wants him to love her and works hard to make it work but he is half-hearted. She is constantly sad because her love is not returned.

Class C: Both man and woman are passionately in love and cherish each other. Their home is filled with love, happiness, and peace.

Your case seem to fall into class B. It's a great thing that he is gone. Now you can patiently and prayerfully find a man who will take you to class C . . . a happy and loving guy whom you will live with ever after.

Read the article on broken heart at . . .

http://www.true-love-relationship-advice.com/broken-heart.html

He brags to his friends that he dumped you?

So what? Who cares?

Aren't his friends just as naive as he is?

My advice.

Don't worry about what people will say. People will always say something no matter how hard you try.

So, who cares?

Get on with your life!