What is responsible for this loss of attraction? Why are you no longer attracted to her?
Are you comparing her with some other woman? Has she lost her beauty? Or has her behaviour or attitude changed?
The truth is . . . you cannot change her just by insisting that she should change. It's difficult to change people. But you can change yourself.
Isaac Newton's third law says, "To every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction"
In simple terms . . . your wife's behaviour is driven to some extent by your attitude towards her. Change your attitude towards her and you will gradually see her change.
This is a fundamental truth.
If you truly love your wife, change the way you treat her and she will change the way she treats you.
Take the initiative.
Feb 01, 2010 Rating
im in the same situation by: Anonymous
i have been married for 15 years finding my self not so interested sexually with my wife but it has alot to do with being married for so long and loosing the attraction im trying to over come this but there has been bad blood for a while argue and argue and my son doesnt help things he makes it worse its hard to want to do anything with her after the attraction is gone
Sep 09, 2007 Rating
Grow Your Love For Your Wife by: Samson Itoje
The truth is . . .
1. Your wife will eventually grow old. And when she's old, she won't be as pretty as she is now.
2. You will also eventually grow old and when you do, you won't be as handsome as you are now.
Will your love fade when you grow old?
It may or it may not. It all depends on how much you love your wife now that she's young.
True love overcomes any negative feelings. It overcomes trials and tribulations. It overcomes
fear of aging. And it is the critical ingredient that makes love relationships last forever.
So, how do you overcome your negative emotions?
Grow your love for your wife . . . NOW.
Do everything, I mean everything, together. Live for her and get her to live for you.
When your lives become intertwined and you truly become one in thought, mind, and purpose, nothing can separate you . . . not even old age nor the fear of aging.