I have finished with my fella of 8 years but I still love him

by Shellyliverpool

What should I do? I have been with my boyfriend for 8years. he has been married twice before and I don't think he wants to marry again.

I see him every night but we don't make love or go anywere as he says he is tired. I told him I have had enough and I don't want to see him again but I miss him.

Should I phone him?

Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor

You can phone him if you feel like it. You're still friends, right?

He doesn't want to have sex?

That is great because should be reserved for married people.

Don't mind what the world says. Sex is sweeter when yu have it with someone to whom you are married. In which case, there will be no guilt feelings.

I suggest you have the relationship without the sex. Build a strong bond of friendship and trust that can mature into marriage.

Thereafter, have great sex. it's the bonus married people enjoy.