I Have Something That Will Never Go AwayI've been seeing this guy for almost a month now, and we are totally into each other. I told him about the fact that I have something that will never go away and he doesn't care he still wants to get to know me.
My reply Hi. It's great to be in love. It's great to be told, "I love you". You may be temporarily speechless. It's a split moment of unspeakable excitement. But after that, you must test the love to be sure it's beyond just the words. You must make sure it's true love because it will last only if it's true love. In your case, you say you have something that will never go away. He says he doesn't care. From experience, many men say that when they don't know what it is. When they finally get to know how bad it is, many walk away and never look back. Not even a phone call from them after that. Don't get me wrong. This is not to say all men are like that. It's not to say your man will be like that. However, you have to be absolutely sure. In any case, you've only known this guy for a month, maybe two at the most. So there are a whole lot of things you don't know about him yet. Bottom line. Be absolutely sure he's the kind of man who can live with your past . . . a man who will love you wholeheartedly whatever the odds. How do you know that for sure? Simple. Test him. For starters, tell him everything newsworthy and not so newsworthy about yourself. You have started on the right track by telling him there's something about you that will never go away. Obviously, this means that this thing or these circumstances will be with you for a long time . . . even after you get married.
if he becomes more passionate about keeping the relationship . . . . . . he's the kind of man you should spend your life with. Please take some time to read this article . . . dirty little secret. I recommend you also register for the e-course, "7 Steps To Get A Good Husband". It comes with a free ebook, "The 10-way love test". Check out this course at . . . good husband. This course is a lifetime resource. Don't miss it. Final thoughts. What should you do? 1. Be frank with him. Tell him that thing about you that will never go away. 2. Use the guidelines above to decide if you should keep him or fire him 3. Don't say you love him unless you really do love him. Honesty is the foundation of lasting relationships 4. It's great to be in love. But don't get all freaked out. This is about your future. It's about your happiness. So . . . Don't rush in. Only fools rush in. Take your time. Test him out in different scenarios. 5. Keep the relationship only if you love him and he loves you in return 50-50 Hey, do the right thing. Best wishes, Samson Itoje Back To Home Page From I Have Something That Will Never Go Away Subscribe to the True Love Advisor newsletter for latest tips and advice
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