I love him But I don't know what he wants from me

by Valerie
(NY)

I love this man with all my heart. But things are off between us.

One day things are great between us, we are close friends and then the next he shuts me out of his life by being mean.

When I talk to him about it he says its because I'm an evil person. Which I am not or so I think I am not. He says that he will not love me until I answer the question right only I don't know what question I am being asked.

I ask him to tell me what he wants and he will say the same thing over and over. He says that until I get the question right He will not move forward with me.

He stays at home alone no other girlfriends and it kills me to know I am doing something wrong. I don't know what he wants from me this is not about sex or befitting myself.

I just want him to be happy. I want to love him and have him love me back. What question is he asking of me?

how do I answer him?

Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor

Perhaps your man is teasing you or he is alluding to something he has mentioned to you before in passing.

Whatever the case, he knows what he is talking about, which may be real or just something cooked up to keep you on edge.

He is clearly driing you crazy and he may be enjoying it secretly.

My advice is that you stay calm and don't let hi take advantage of the fact that you are seriously in love with him.

If he truly loves you, he will be concerned that his behaviour is driving you crazy.

Play it cool and see how it goes.

Each time he brings up the subject, tell him calmly that you don't understand what he means. And that he could save the day by simply asking you the question he has in mind so you can give him the appropriate answer.

Whatever happens, stay calm. Don't yell at him, don't scream back.

Your calmness and maturity may break his opposition.