I Moved Out A Couple
of Weeks Ago

I moved out a couple of weeks ago at his request.

We work together and remain very friendly. Yesterday he was talking about us and the life we had. Today he told me I can ring him whenever I want.

Does he mean it? Should I? If so, how long do I leave it? I love this man with all my heart. My Reply He said you can ring him anytime. Does he mean it? He may mean it. Perhaps he misses the time you shared together. Or he may just feel he has an obligation to help you heal after the breakup.

But should you?

That's up to you. It depends on what you want for yourself.

Remember you moved out of his home at his request. For some reason he was tired of seeing your face or bored of the love relationship you both shared. So he asked you to leave.

Has he changed his mind now?

Perhaps he has. Perhaps he wants you back.

But why did he send you away in the first place?

You need to find an answer to that. If you don't, you stand a chance of been sent packing again or of being embarrassed in some other way in the future.

You love this man with all your heart. Understandably, you're willing to make sacrifices for him. He has opened a door of opportunity for a comeback by asking you to ring him whenever you want.

Naturally, you would like to jump at the opportunity because you love him. But do this for yourself. Find out how much he loves you. How far is he willing to take this love relationship? Will he stick with you always? When you call him as he ask you to and enjoy talking with him, you will be tempted to call again and again and again. Then the relationship will start all over again.

There's nothing wrong with that. But you need to ask yourself where this will all lead. If you're comfortable with the direction the relationship is headed, go ahead . . . call him.

How long should you leave it before you call him?

Give him a week or two. Then call him.

One small piece of advice.

Don't gloss over the fact that he asked you to leave. It was a breakup. And a breakup is serious business.

So, when you call him and talk, after all is said and done, remember to ask him why he wanted you to breakup.

What did you do wrong? What got over him? Is there any hope for you?

Love is heartwarming. But be sure you're giving your love to someone who loves you just as much as you love him.

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