I Really Really Need Your Advice - Its About Being faithful

by Hannah
(Yorkshire)

I'm 16. My boyfriend lives in Ireland, I know he loves me.

I'm quite sure that I more than just care for him, that I'm starting to fall for him (it takes me a while).

But when I start to feel like I'm falling in love I panic and either push them away or break up. But not this time.

I'm quite happy with him, but there's a boy who goes to the same 6th form as me, who I fancy and am good friends with, and I'm sure that he likes me too.

But I don't want to do anything because I have a boyfriend. It's just I get so lonely without my boyfriend around, and I'm holding on for my boyfriend.

I don't know what to do and most adults just think these sort of questions are silly because I'm only 16.

I'm not saying that I know what love is, but I'm quite sure that I'm finding it with my bf and I also need to know how to make my ex move on and leave me alone as well.

I wish my mum could understand how much Will means to me because she's making things hard for us, by only letting him call me/me call him on wednesdays and sundays, and I'm not allowed online that much, which wouldn't be that bad.

We don't see each other because we're in seperate countries but he's coming to mine this year for 5 days so I get to see him.

I just don't know what to do. I'm scared that we'll get distant or that I'll panic and push him away or cheat.

I don't want to but I'm so mixed up.

I know this sounds silly and maybe pathetic because most people think that teenagers don't know anything about love, but pls help me.

Thank you Hannah.