I THINK MY WIFE FELL OUT OF LOVE.

I'M 42 SHE IS 37. WE HAVE 2 KIDS ( 7 & 9 )
WE BOTH WORK AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 11
YEARS.

I THINK IT ALL STARTED ABOUT 5 YEARS
AGO WHEN SHE TOLD ME I WAS NOT EMOTIONALLY
THERE FOR HER? I ASKED WHAT SHE NEEDED FROM
ME AND SHE HAD QUITE A LIST OF THINGS. I
TOOK TO HEART HER NEEDS AND MADE THE CHANGES
SHE SAID SHE WANTED.

I THEN NOTICED SHE WAS BECOMING MORE DISTANT AND OF COURSE OUR SEX LIFE TOOK A HUGE HIT. I ASKED HER IF I WAS FAILING HER SOMEHOW AND SHE SAID "NO, YOU HAVE
DONE ALL I ASKED".

I THEN ASKED IF I HAVE BECOME SOMEONE SHE NO LONGER LIKED. SHE SAID SHE WAS
MORE PLEASED WITH THE CHANGES BUT SHE JUST
DIDN'T KNOW WHY SHE WAS IN A MOOD ALL THE TIME.

I LOVE HER SO MUCH BUT CAN'T GET HER TO TELL
ME WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE TO MAKE HER LOVE ME
AGAIN. SHE SAY'S SHE LOVES ME SHE JUST DOESN'T
FEEL PASSIONATE ABOUT OUR LOVE LIFE. YIKES!

I AM NOT A BRAGGART BUT I KNOW SHE FULLY ENJOYED
OUR SEX LIFE BEFORE. WE WENT FROM 8 TO 9 TIMES A
WEEK TO 2 OR 3 TIMES A MONTH. SHE WILL NOT DISCUSS THIS WITH HER DOCTOR AND MARRIAGE COUNSELING IS OUT BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TELL OUR PROBLEMS TO ANYONE.

WILL I CHEAT ON HER TO GAIN SOME
SEXUAL SATISFACTION? NO!

IS DIVORCE ON MY LIST OF THINGS TO DO? NO! I JUST WANT MY WIFE HAPPY AND IN LOVE WITH ME AGAIN. NOW WHAT?

P. IN FL.