i want him to want me desperately

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i want him to want me desperately

by Eresa
(Canada)

i am in love with this man and now i think he does love me back the way i love him. the biggest problem is that he is married.

i am so stressed out now because he is having second thoughts about if we should still be together.

i love him so much and i want to win his heart.

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i want him to want me desperately

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Oct 08, 2010
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Its only a matter of time....
by: Anonymous

I agree fully on all the comments. A married man will only leave his wife for another if he is desperately unhappy in the marriage. He considers everything carefully before he moves on to another. Money is the most important factor in most cases.... posessions are very important to males and if they have to lose half plus go through the emotional trauma of a divorce, they mostly just do not have the stamina to do so.

So, unless the married man you are involved with, is constantly complaining about the way he gets treated at home, then there is very little chance of him leaving his wife.

My experience of falling in love with a married man taught me a hard lesson. Yes, he will use you as long as he gets a kick out of the relationship. After that, you become just like his wife to him or the other girlfriends he has had. The type of man who allows himself to have a mistress is mostly a man who is out for the excitement of having something that is 'forbidden fruit'. After a year or eighteen months, the novelty wears off and he loses interest or moves on to another woman.

There is only heartache in getting involved with a man who does not have a real reason to find another partner and who is just bored and trying to spice up his life or his male ego.

I have empathy... been there, done that.... learned a lesson from it and can say:

FIND SOMEONE THAT IS WORTH THE TIME AND EFFORT YOU ARE PUTTING INTO THE RELATIONSHIP.

Good luck and may you find true love soon!

Apr 11, 2010
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Run!
by: Anonymous

Run Run Run! It is difficult to let go especially if you believe that you love him. The sooner you leave him the better of you will be. To not feel guilty about his family or wife-he is the one that is causing the pain-if it is not you, he soon will find another.

Think about it this way-he is a liar and he cannot be trusted. If one day he would leave his wife-he would do it all over again. But this time you will be the victim.

Life is short and he will use you for the best years of your life.

Please I don't know you but I have been there. it always hurts but you are strong and you could do it.

If he was trustworthy and he loved you he would tell the truth and move on.
Take care.

Jan 24, 2010
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dont do this
by: Anonymous

its make ur life very bad.u should love that person who realy deserve ur love.if u remain here,u will be crying,he never be only urs& this feeling hurts u always.dont make ur this position.it is better to leave him.& find some real man for u,who is only for u,than u will feel more complete & happy.make ur life good,healthy.

Aug 02, 2009
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So messed up
by: Anonymous

Youre an asshole for being involved with a married man. Have some respect for his wife.
Men are weak for sex, and thats all you are to him.
Have some respect for the sanctity of marriage. Its women like you who cause problems in marriages.

Jan 08, 2009
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beware-most men won't divorce
by: Anonymous

I have read up on this subject and have know 3 close friends, personally, who have been involved with married men. In all their cases, it was the same.

A man loves to have a " mistress" on the side..it boosts his ego, makes him feel young, powerful, cool, etc...but most of them only want this as an aside. They do not want to divorce for many reasons, finances being one of the biggies.

They don't want to break up the home, kids, etc. They don't want to pay child support...and in many cases, they still love the wife...they just need a little excitement on the side.

All of the women I knew intentionally revealed themselves to the wife of their lover (one of them even left her toe ring in his bed so the wife would find it), in hopes that she would get mad & divorce him, because the mistress was not having any luck convincing him to divorce her. But that did not happen.

Interestingly, the man did not stop seeing the mistress, even though he was "caught". He will keep on as long as you let him. Also, he did not leave his wife...nor did she leave him. The one who gets hurt here is the " mistress".

my advice to you is to run as fast as you can from that. It can cause you nothing but hurt.

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