i want to know if my boyfriend is acting or if he really loves me

by sylvie
(france)

My bf and I are in love ... he talked about everything that consider him (bad side and good side) and how he changed from d past to now .. and he is so sure that things are really different with me;

I'm the source of his happiness, his friend, lover, soulmate. I am his light to climb the top of dreams because i dont care about his bad side (that he want to change it for me; he is just himself with me, he said he doesn't pretend to be someone else to make me love him...)

he is thousand times happier than before, he doesnt see his life without me and he said that he think that im 'the right person' we even talked about marriage.

to sum up.. i really trust him but my friends advice me to don't (they dont even know whats inside his soul). they said that he is maybe good at acting

Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor

Is he good at acting or has he really changed?

You're the person who can tell. You talk to him, you observe him.

Wait. Do you know who his friends are?

You can judge a person by the kind of friends he keeps. For example, people who keep bad company and yet claim to be innocent are deceiving themselves.

Do you know how he treats his family? What does he say about his parents and siblings?

Someone cannot be nice to you and be nasty to others and you think he won't be nasty to you sooner or later.

Properly evaluate him and ask your friends what makes them think he is acting.

Love relationship is serious business. Do your homework well or you may get into trouble.