I Love You, I Will Always Love You. That Is What All Men Say

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I Love You, I will always Love You. That Is What All Men Say.

He says I will always love you. I love you with all my heart. But his I will always love you speech must go beyond words. There must be substance. There must be proof.

Therefore, be wary.

I must warn you: Men are good with words, really good with words. They know what women like to hear. So they tell them exactly what they like to hear.

And bam! The girl has fallen neck deep in love.

Don't be that girl falling in love with a dream.

Many men are not what they say they are. But they are so tricky and their tongue so sweet that innocent women fall prey.

Do not fall prey to sweet sugar-coated speech.

You want real love, right? Therefore let your love be based on reality.

Now let's deal with reality.

At some point in your love relationship your man will tell you, I love you and I will always love you.

Every man eventually says that. They may not use those exact words but they eventually get round to tell you that.

Why do men say this?

Your man says this to reassure you that his love is true. He wants you to know that he is real or at least make you feel that he is real. He wants to be sure your heart is with him.

Here's how this works.

When your man says, I love you and I will always love you, he expects a response from you.

A woman in love will usually respond by saying, I love you too. And perhaps add, I want us to be together forever. I don't ever want to lose you.

when a woman respond that way, the man gets the impression he still has a hold on her and that things are going well between them.

A dubious man with some ulterior motive also sees this as a sign that his plans are on course and that the woman is still under his control.

When you are in a love relationship this time must come . . . a time when you reassure each other of your undying love. You can't help this. It's part of the evolving nature of relationships.

My advice is that you use this window of opportunity judiciously.

This time provides a fine opportunity to assess how well things are between you.

For example . . .

when he says, I love you and I will always love you, avoid the known pattern of response.

You can say, Honey I love you too. But I have some concerns.

This is a wonderful opener. Now go ahead to lay out your concerns.

For example . . .

What has he done for you lately?

How far is he prepared to go with this relationship?

How many mountains is he prepared to climb?

How many rivers is he kitted to swim?

When last did he ask you about your job?

He doesn't talk about kids. Why not?

He doesn't talk about himself or his plans with you. Why not?

. . . and many more questions.

Relationships that endure are based on openness, trust, and good communication.

So here's reality avenue.

When your man tells you, I love you and I will always love you, let him prove it. Go beyond the sweet talk and dig deep. Go for substance.

Love does not hide. If he loves you and will always love you, you will see it.

Strive for openness, trust, communication, and mutual accountability.

This is love in its true sense.

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