Im a married woman in love with another married man

I am a 43 year old woman who recently met up with an old school friend and he also lived in my neighborhood.

Well when we met again since 25 years has passed and he told me he always liked me since we were small kids. Well the thing is we live in different states and we call each other sometimes sneaking each other secret times because we are both married to different people.

My husband is not a very good man and this man that I have known for over 30 years is so great and awesome that me and him have fallen in love with each other by talking to each other and we use to text but he got caught by his wife but they are still together.

There is something about him that I just cannot explain that he is the greatest person that I have ever known. I cannot stop thinking about him non stop and he feels the same way but we have to be very careful about this.

I miss hearing from him every day and we connect emotionally as well as soulfully too. He is so easy to talk to and I just love him so much that I would go through any extent just to see him for a couple of hours but we live about 3 1/2 hours away from each other.

I miss him and we talk on the phone about once every 2 weeks but my heart aches for him so much that I want him to be with me from now on.

He loves me too and we have this bond from knowing each other as kids but we are so comfortable with each other and we want to see each other sooo badly.

I know in my heart this man is the one for me. My question is: How can we see each other, and should I buy him a phone separately so I can text him privately and call him?

He wants to be with me but it is hard because his wife has his phone monitored.

I love this man so much that he is a better man than my husband. My husband is terrible to me but cannot leave him just yet.

What should I do????

I am totally in love with this man and he is with me too.