I'm In Love For The First Time

by Shefy
(Italy)

i'm 14, and i know thats rely young, but i swear i think i'm in love.

A year ago, i got to know this guy and he was AMAZING until i started liking him. After having a fight with my bestfriend, she went and told him that i liked him.

Ever since then me and him have never talked properly and we never hang out. Through the year we only ever talked on chat. And ive told him many times that i liked him, when i did.


Ive been on and off but ive never been able to stick to a guy like this, ive always been able to forget a guy in a few weeks. I cant live without him, he means to much to me.

We don't even have the same friendship group since hes so full of being 'popular'. I don't know what to do to make him see how much i care. I just want him to care back.

I want to talk to him again. and i want him to trust me. I want to be his friend.

Reply By Samson, True Love Advisor

You have a friend that you care so much about and you want him to care about you too.

This is called friendship.

When you care about somebody, it means that you love the person. However, when adults talk about being in love or falling in love, it's much deeper than friendly.

It relates to a much deeper emotion, the kind of emotion that you shouldn't nurture at 14 because it can get you into trouble.

So what is love? What does it mean to fall in love?

Please click on the link below and read the articles on definition of love and true love. It will provide some insight.

http://www.true-love-relationship-advice.com/what-is-love.html

http://www.true-love-relationship-advice.com/true-love.html