Impotent Husband

I am a 37 years old woman. I have 15 years of marriage and 3 children. My husband is diabetic, he has not touch me for 4 years and he does not have hope to regain his normal condition.

I am now involved with a married man who used to be my ex but I respect the fact that he is married and I am trying so hard to make sure that I dont destroy his marriage.

I love this man so much,he is a decent guy and he loves me back and respects me so much. Is any other way I could do with my situation more than cheating?

I really have high sex drive. I sometimes wish I could have sex at least every after a day.

Please advice me. I am desparate knowing that what I am doing is wrong.