You having the exact same situation as me. First i asked him, am i his first gf, he said no, i asked him so did u have sex ? he lied to be about it, and then later on he said yes, when he was 17. He's a pro in bed, really really good which make me get upset almost everytime when we was doing it, i didnt feel enjoy, pleasure and happy. All i had in mind that he did those things with his ex, and i felt yuck, nasty and angry, and did stupidest thing i knew i shouldn't-- i had sex with my classmate. So just be happy, and dont think too much.
The reason you acted like that because you are so much in love with him, wanted to be his 1st gf.
Nov 09, 2007 Rating
You Are Afraid He May Do It Again by: samson itoje
Your man had a sexual relationship with someone else before he met you.
How did you hear about it?
Most likely he told you about it. If that is the case, then he is an honest man. And he deserves to be trusted.
Few men can look their partners in the eye and say, "I did this or that" especially if what they did is less than complimentary.
But your man confessed. And as you said, he has not looked at another woman since then.
He deserves to be trusted.
I think you are afraid he may do it again and perhaps end up running off with another woman.
He may, he may not.
What you need to do to get over these negative feelings is to learn to trust him.
Remember, he is now with you not with the other woman. He is now your man.
Give him all the support he needs. Stop being overly jealous. Jealously has a way of destroying strong love relationships.
Extreme jealousy can ruin everything. So, be wise. Learn to trust him despite his failings years back.
