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How Do You Know It Is True Love? How Do You Know He Is For You?

Question

We have been dating four months. He and I both feel our best at each others side. I have been told that it takes two years to know if it is true love and to truly know a person by their actions instead of their words.

I do not want to rush into anything, I want to make a wise decision. How do you truly know a person is for you?

Answer

I guess you're asking two questions here.

1. how long does it take to know if it's true love? How long does it take to know his actions are for real?

2. How do you really know a person is for you?

To answer the first question . . .

There is no specific time frame.

Some people say 2 yrs while others say 3yrs.

However, from experience, it's not the length of time you've been courting that matters but the amount of quality time you spend together during the courtship period and how closely knit, how closely glued together, you get during the dating period.

I have seen four years courtship crash just before it was time for marriage. In fact, the first lady to ask me a question through the relationship questions program had been dating her man for four years. But then he left her for his ex-girlfriend.

Clearly, it's not how long but how well.

Therefore, One of the key recommendations in my ebook, "12 ways to win a man's heart", is that you work with your man and be a part of his plans long before you get to the marriage altar. (see details of this ebook at http://win-your-dream-man.zyonlinebookpublishing.com)

This is what I mean.

A man can pretend for only so long. If you share a large part of his schedule or his life while still dating, you will eventually see signs that show he's pretending or that he's not fully for you . . . if he's that kind of person.

To answer your question . . . how do you know a man is truly for you?

He must be your companion and friend

He must treat you as an extension of himself even though you're yet to be married. Two of you must become one.

He must do things for you and with you

He must build his world around you

He must be full of enthusiasm for you and talk excited about you to his friends

He must be consumed by his love for you.

You must come first above all else . . . except God.

Remember . . . a love relationship is not a short term thing. It's forever. And it can only be forever if he commits to you and you alone.

He must share his world with you totally and completely. No reservations.

This is love in the complete sense of it.

Recommended resource: Take the e-course, "7 Steps To Get A Good Husband". It comes with a special ebook, "True Love Checklist - The 10-way Love Test". Below is the url.

http://true-love-relationship-advice.com/good-husband.html